Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Are you Passively Aggressive?

Recently, I was asked to look up the term "passively aggressive" because perhaps this is ME. After reading the information on this style of communication, I was quite shocked.

Here are a few of the characteristics of a passive-aggressive communicator.

  • You manipulate others to choose your way.
  • YOu appear honest but underlying comments confuse.
  • You tend towards indirectness with the air of being direct.
  • You are self-enchanting but not straight forward about it.
  • If you don't get your way you'll make snide comments or pout and be the victim.
  • You feel confused, unclear on how to feel, you are angry but not sure why. Later you possibly feel guilty.

So, I just kept searching sites and reading until I came across this one called helloquizzy which allowed me to take the passive aggressive test and here are the results.

Your result for The are you overtly or passively aggressive Test...

Nice person!

1 overtly aggressive, 2 passive aggressive

There is usually an appropriate way to act in every situation. And you are rather good at doing that. You don't take things out on people, and you don't try to make their lives miserable. Nice job.

You scored low in both overt and passive forms of aggression. The world could use more people like you!

To see if you lean towards being passive or overtly aggressive, look at your scores below. Anything over 2 shows at least a slight tendency!

Take the are you overtly or passively aggressive Test

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